3 tips to express his love

Show love to the person you love on February 14th for the feast of love, that's good. It's even better if you do it every day of the year. Yes but how ? Answers from our experts.

No matter how we show love to each other ... what is important is to do it regularly. All the experts we consulted are unanimous on this point.

"Expressing emotions enriches the relationship"

Saverio Tomasella the advice of psychoanalyst:

"It is important to express his love spontaneously by words (not just" I love you ", but such" I am with you "), gestures, daily attentions, gifts ... More we express emotions, the more it enriches the relationship, prompting the other to also express what he feels, and facilitates communication between the couple.

To encourage each other to say his emotions, expressing the sincere and spontaneous way of hers as often as possible. To open doors for him, ask him also occasionally some slight issues around his emotions. "

"The key is that it be sincere and understood by the other"

The advice of Dr. Jacques Cosnier, emeritus professor of ethology communications, psychiatrist and psychoanalyst

"Good news: you can express your love even if one has himself received little. For this, it all depends on one's personality, age, culture, upbringing. The way also including or not we managed to express his love at first stirrings of adolescence.

It is well to remember from time to time we like to in a couple well-established, although "I love you" from start becoming scarce. It also involves gestures, attention, attitude, the essential being that this multimodal language is sincere, understood and enjoyed by both members of the couple in love. "

"Make another feel it is most important"

The advice of Genevieve Djenati, a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist couple

"A recurring complaint in the couple is that one considers love for granted, without the need to return once the pair was established. But love must continue to tell and to show.

Felt to another that is more important: taking time for him, listening and adapting their behavior, share an activity they like, find out together. Finally, develop a complicity through looks, a common language and intelligence, especially erotic. "

The 5 key points to remember

1:Beyond the missed opportunities (birthdays, Valentine's Day ...), it is important to express love regularly and sincerely, not take for granted the love of another.

2:It is often easier for a woman than for a man to express his feelings of love, because a man has often been raised in modesty and reserve, and is less connected to his emotions.

3:To each his way to express his love through words, gestures, touches, looks, joint projects and especially the time spent on the other

4:The first way to express love is to feel her partner that holds a special place in his life, through a behavior with him different from the usual social behavior.

5:All major family event (birth, death ...) can weaken the bond of love. It is then important to strengthen it by reaffirming his love, even by creating new rituals in love.